The Ipson Family

Thank you

2011-11-11T22:57:00.003-06:00

The Ipson family extends our unwavering gratitude to our veterans. You valiantly protected and do protect this, the greatest nation in the world. You are always in our prayers! I hope that we always prove ourselves worthy of your great sacrifices! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

America the Beautiful, we so proudly call you home!

Ben and I are instilling in our boys a love for this great nation, our brave men and women that valiantly serve in the military and reverence and respect for our beloved flag.

Even as a small baby.

Thanks again for all that you do past, present and future.

Three Years

2011-11-10T22:48:00.004-06:00

It has been three long years since my nearly perfect brother-in-law, Duane passed away. I wish things got easier, or you missed him less, but its not that way -- it is still hard for all of us. So, this year I am going to share one of my earliest, sweet memories of Duane. Becky and Duane met and started to date when I was only 8 year old, they were so inseparable that they would stay up late, talking through the night. Duane’s parents didn't want him driving home so late at night so sometimes he just crashed on the sofa.

One Saturday morning I came out of my room to watch cartoons as I normally did, however, I saw someone on the sofa and raced back to my parent’s room scared! I told my Mom there was a man on the sofa and she just very casually told me, “Megan, don’t worry, it’s just Duane.” I smiled, shrugged my shoulders and thought “Oh, ok.” And went back out to the living room, turned the TV, sat crossed-leg on the floor and started to watch cartoons. I must’ve woke Duane up, because he turned over saw that I was watching cartoons, got up, went into the kitchen poured himself and me a bowel of cereal, came back to where I was in front of the TV, gave me mine, sat down next to me on the floor and we watch cartoons together.

I dearly love and miss my brother-in-law. He really was so much more like a big brother to me and I will always cherish those little moments we shared. He really did make my world more secure, happier and complete.

Halloween

2011-10-31T22:00:00.007-05:00

This year we did Computer theme

Ben-Space Bar

Zack- Esc Key

Max-The Mouse

Me-Any Key

Gotta love Halloween it is such a fun Holiday get to dress up in something completely different and get to eat LOTS of CANDY see all the different costumes. Also in my family we order PIZZA.

Fish & Chips

2011-10-12T20:44:00.003-05:00

This is Zack's version of Fish & Chips. What more can I say?

I Will Never Forget! Will You?

2011-09-11T09:57:00.016-05:00

For the husband who told his wife I love you one last time before his plane went down in a field, for the wife who stopped in the stairs to call her husband to say I will love you forever, for the mothers and fathers who kissed their kids goodbye the morning they died,for the policemen who rushed in with the firemen to help get others out only to die themselves, for the soldiers who fought back and lost their lives. Today, tomorrow, ten years from now, we will remember♥

Today marks 10 years since the attack. Our lives changed forever.

We as a country, united together and became close to one another. We wanted to fight for our country.

For those of us who are still standing lets stand together, fight together to elect into office the right people to make this country a better one, to rebuild it into what it was intended to be. A great country...One nation, under God, indivisible!

Ben and I are fighting for our country, we stand united with the purpose rebuild this into "One nation, under God, indivisible! Ben and I are teaching our boys that we need to stand-up for our rights!

What are you guys doing? Are you forgetting? I am NOT!!!!

Blessing Day

2011-09-05T20:33:00.005-05:00

Maxwell Benjamin Ipson was blessed on September 4, 2011.

My wonderful in-laws were able to travel from Utah to participate with Max's naming and blessing. Joining Ben in the circle was: My Dad, Pete; Ben's Dad, Larry, Ben's Uncle Alan, Bishop Clutter, Bro. Long, and our Home Teacher Bro. Randy Hill. My nephew Ben, held the microphone. It was a very spiritual sweet moment in our lives. We are so blessed to have this funny, loving little man join our family.

Max looks a bit bored by the whole proceedings. He was an absolute angel and never peeped a sound during the blessing. He wore the gown that his great-grandmother Durney sent Zackary for his blessing. Again, I cannot stress enough what a wonderful day it was. The next day we celebrated his blessing with a combined family barbeque!

The combined family that gathered for the blessing! Minus my grandparents and Richard & Phyllis Summers.

Happy Birthday Max!

2011-08-01T11:07:00.002-05:00

Love really is the very essence of life!
Happy birthday and welcome to the wacky Ipson world! Our little boy was born August 1, 2011 at 11:07 a.m. He weighed in at 7 lbs. 12.4 oz. and is 21-3/4" long! He has wave sandy hair and is very alert! Ben and I couldn't be happier, our life together just keeps getting better and better. I am truly blessed and am overwhelmed by the love our Heavenly Father has for me. I never thought I would be so blessed. I am deeply in love with Ben, Zack and our new little Maxwell Benjamin!

Yep, the ticker is right -- I am . . .

2011-07-31T11:53:00.001-05:00

40 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I am officially overdue.

Just Call Me Oscar . . .

2011-07-27T22:34:00.004-05:00

The combination of the oppressive heat and being 9 months pregnant has turned me into:

The good news is, if I do not deliver this little one by Monday morning, I am going to be induced. Ben and I are to report to the hospital at 5 a.m. Monday, August 1st. Thank you Ben for being so loving and patient!

Barefoot and Pregnant

2011-07-20T23:05:00.006-05:00

I had my weekly OB/GYN visit today and I am dilated to a 2-3. It won't be long now. 9 more days until I am due. I can't wait for this new little one to become a part of our family.

Yes, I know . . . Barefoot and Pregnant! Hehehe!

I am truly blessed!

Left My Camera at Home!

2011-07-19T17:54:00.005-05:00

Zack and I went to McD's with my Mom, big Sister and 5 nieces today. It was noisey, crowded and wild! But Zack loved playing with his cousins -- especially Grace, Hannah and his buddy, Emma. The older group (from Katie up to Mom) sat and discussed the most recent Harry Potter movie. We had a wonderful time. About 10 minutes before we left, Zack started interacting with another 2 year old boy. (Isaac) and the 2 of them were bouncing their little bums off the emergency door and making it rattle. Each time it rattled, they would burst out in hysterical laughing. You just couldn't help but laugh with them. I hated to pull them apart but it was already after 2 and way past nap time -- at least for me! As we were leaving little Isaac called out, "Bye-bye Uncle Zack!" (he has an Uncle Zack) It just melted our hearts.

Life is blessed and just a touch of giggles.

National Ice Cream Day and Romance!

2011-07-18T22:17:00.008-05:00

Ronald Reagan designated July as National Ice Cream Month in 1984. He also appointed the third Sunday in July as National Ice Cream Day. Reagan recognized the popularity of ice cream in the United States (90% of the nation's population consumes ice cream)and stated that these two events hould be observed with "appropriate ceremonies and activities."

I married into an ice cream lovin' family. They don't take their passion for this frozen treat lightly, they pile bowls full to celebrate even the slightest occasion and being a true Ipson my little Zack has become a true ice cream officienado. His favorite at this moment is Strawberry -- YUMMY! On Zack's 2nd birthday when we had difficulty getting downstairs to open his presents, we asked him; "Zack, do you want some ice cream?" and lickety split, he flattened out his body and slid down the stairs in a matter of a second. Of course, we temporarily skipped the presents and devoured cake and ice cream!

So, why am I discussing ice cream, other than it is National Ice Cream Month? On Sunday, we celebrated National Ice Cream day with giant waffle cones filled with ice cream and my precious, loving, romantic husband had attached a silver ice cream cone charm on my cone. He said it was to represent ice cream day and becoming a Mom again, but I've always wanted an ice cone to represent him on my bracelet. So, to me it represents all of that, but mostly, my sweet my husband.

I love my husband so much, I couldn't have asked for a better, harder-working, more honorable man. I am truly blessed.

Love Is the Very Essence of Life . . . .

2011-07-02T14:42:00.000-05:00

Barnett Family Reunion 2010

"Love is the very essence of life. It is the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Yet it is not found only at the end of the rainbow. Love is at the beginning also, and from it springs the beauty that arched across the sky on a stormy day. Love is the security for which children weep, the yearning of youth, the adhesive that binds marriage, and the lubricant that prevents devastating friction in the home; it is the peace of old age, the sunlight of hope shining through death. How rich are those who enjoy it in their associations with family, friends, and neighbors! Love, like faith, is a gift of God. It is also the most enduring and most powerful virtue."

— Gordon B. Hinckley (Standing Something Cd: Ten Neglected Virtues That Will Heal Our Hearts And Homes)

Thank you President Hinckley for this reminder. I am so blessed to have my life filled with love.

Like Father Like Son!

2011-07-01T13:35:00.004-05:00

Ben loves to eat plain lemons, my dear little Zacky does, too!

About One Month to Go . . .

2011-06-17T19:44:00.005-05:00

Feeling as big as a barn!

With my 2nd child coming really soon, the old doubts and fears of whether I am capable of handling all of this has been overwhelming me. I'm scared, it's just that simple. Can I give everything to Zacky that he'll need and be everything to this new little one that I so deeply love already. Poor Ben, he's had to put up with a very tired, grumpy wife. Food is still disgusting to me. (well except for ice cream, some fruits and deep-fried things.) I've started getting terrible cramps in my thighs and I feel as big as a barn. So, I thought maybe I could make myself feel better by better occupying my mind. I found this piece of advice recently. (Okay, I was really looking for a wooden swing set/slide/fort combo but made myself look for something more uplifting.)

In a recent talk, President Monson reminded us of Pres. Benson's advice:

“Thinking of the example of his own mother and that of his beloved and faithful wife, Flora, President Benson has offered ten specific suggestions for mothers as they guide their precious children:

1. Take time to always be at the crossroads in the lives of your children, whether they be six or sixteen.
2. Take time to be a real friend to your children.
3. Take time to read to your children. Remember what the poet wrote:

You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be—
I had a mother who read to me.

4. Take time to pray with your children.
5. Take time to have a meaningful weekly home evening. Make this one of your great family traditions.
6. Take time to be together at mealtimes as often as possible.
7. Take time daily to read the scriptures together as a family.
8. Take time to do things together as a family.
9. Take time to teach your children.
10. Take time to truly love your children. A mother’s unqualified love approaches Christlike love

(see Ezra Taft Benson, To the Mothers in Zion, pamphlet, 1987, pp. 8–12; see also Ezra Taft Benson, Come, Listen to a Prophet’s Voice, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1990, pp. 32–36).”

I hope I can be and do all of those things. I hope I can be a good mother of two.

My Big Sister and Me!

2011-06-11T20:27:00.004-05:00

For Mother's Day my big sister and I collaborated and gave our mother pictures of the two of us. In some things we are so similar: love of family, country, Rascal Flatts (country music), reading, our religion and chocolate. In other ways we are so very different: She's funny, very creative, artsy and her in-laws adore her and I'm more serious, organized, question my abilities all the time and my in-laws tolerate me for my husband's sake. I admire her very much, her courage and strength through adversity, her talent for cooking and anything artistic, her ability to have so many friends and people outside of our family love her and admire her. She is just a very good, honorable, kind person. She (along with my own mother) is a wonderful example of Motherhood. She is one of my heroes, I love her very much and feel blessed that our Heavenly Father put her on this earth to be my big sister and to help guide me along the way.

The Importance of the ICE!

2011-04-18T09:19:00.009-05:00

Ice is what Zack calls his pacifier. Yesterday, during Sacrament Meeting Zack dropped his ice. A baby, a few pews in front of us popped up and had the exact same one that Zack had dropped. My little monkey got this look of "Hey!" Zack looked down and then looked up and exclaimed, "My Ice! My Ice!" The baby went back down and Ben picked up Zack's ice and the baby popped back up without the i icee but then, the baby was given back his ice and Zack had this look of "huuuuuh? That's weird how can he have the same one as me, I have mine right here." So a lesson was learned the ice is very important to my 2 year old.

A Wedding Tip For You

2011-04-09T22:08:00.011-05:00

This is the top of my wedding cake at our one year anniversary.
Normally any cake that's been in the freezer for a year is freezer burned and tastes nasty-BAD !

This is what I did:

*First, freeze it a bit so the frosting will harden a bit
*Wrap it in saran wrap very generously
*Generously wrap it in aluminum foil
*Put it in a Tupperware or other air-tight freezer container. Seal tightly.
*Put it into the freezer.

THIS DOES WORK!!!! A year later when you take the top layer out and it UN-thaws it is amazing! You can celebrate your first anniversary with wedding cake that taste like it is only a week old. So, no more bad-tasting, year-old wedding cake!

Who is having more fun.

2011-03-31T07:33:00.001-05:00

So which generation is having more fun. Is it the Grandpa, the Dad, or the Child? You make the call I want to know what you think.

I sure love my men!

Needed A Little Snack

2011-03-15T15:05:00.000-05:00

After most of the guests had left Zack's 2nd birthday party he decided he needed a little snack. So what would any creative, determined 2 year old do? Climb on top of the table and help themselves to the chip, salsa and guacamole dip of course! Zack just need to have a little small smackeral of something yummy for his tummy.

I have such a cutie! I am so blessed to be this active little guy's Mommy!

Happy Birthday Zack -- aka Yikes I have a 2 y/o!

2011-03-07T21:30:00.001-06:00

My baby, Zack is 2 years old now! How did time go by so quickly? Zacky's grandparents (Ben's parents) came from UT to help us celebrate his 2nd birthday. The whole family gathered at our home for a Sunday birthday dinner. Of course we had to have an Elmo theme.

When it came time for presents he was a bit excited but when the presents were taken away from him in order to have him unwrap another one he got a little upset and got off my lap and started to head up the stairs. Grammy, (my mom) asked Zack if he wanted some cake but he just ignore her and continued up the stairs. He was a little more then half way up when my mom asked if he wanted some ice cream he immediately flattened himself out and quickly slid down the stairs on his tummy. I wish we had our video cam out at that time. It was so classic and so funny. So we took a break from opening presents and had some cake and ice cream.
After he had his ice cream we went back to opening presents

He got a wide variety of cars, Thomas the train set, balls, Max and Ruby DVD, a recorder, clothes, my church ABC book, trike, etc.

The next day was his actual birthday and we celebrated again! (Shouldn't everyone have a 2 day celebration?) We gave him our presents. Gymboree bubbles, ABC little books, clothes and more trains! We had the leftover cupcakes, homemade mac and cheese with little smokies, green beans, fruit and some homemade rolls -- all of his favorites!

It was a great 2 days to celebrate our little monkey birthday. I am so absolutely blessed to be this clever little guys Mom!

Learning

2011-02-19T13:25:00.026-06:00

Zack loves to learn -- he constantly wants to do ALL of his reading flash cards over and over, wants to read his books, watch his Your Baby Can Read videos, color ( and he does have to be supervised or he colors other things) and learning new signs. He creatively plays with his toys! But, I admit he does love watching Elmo and Max and Ruby. I am so glad that he loves learning as much as Ben and I love teaching him. We are also looking forward to doing things like this with Zack's new sibling that's due around July 30Th.

They say that the 95% of the mind develops between birth to five years develop and that their brains are like a sponge; It's so true. So as parents we NEED to find that balance between teaching, cherishing, and playing so that they grow up to be intelligent, responsible, honorable, contented adults.

Recently, I've noticed a lot of Mom's bragging about their gifted children, or that their child is better "because . . . " Sometimes, it makes me feel like I'm not doing enough -- so, how do you find that peace in yourself about balancing his emotional, spiritual and intellectual needs and still have time for household chores and yourself? One of the things I've had to do is just tune out the other Mom's. I'm doing what is best for my boy and for our family.

I think one of the most important things I can teach Zack is to be kind, sweet and respectful towards his family and those he comes in contact with and to work hard!

Life lesson #483

2011-01-19T07:00:00.012-06:00

Jello pudding cups will break if/when they fall.

Today when I was putting away some things in the fridge the pudding cups fell for some reason ( my fridge is NOT packed at all) and Two of them broke Well I guess that is one way that you have to eat them.

Ahh the little lessons we learn in life.

Dear Duane,

2010-11-10T13:15:00.010-06:00

I can't believe that it has been 2 years since you left this mortal probation. You were the best example of hard-work, unconditional love and sacrifice. I learned so much from you and felt loved by you, my big brother. No one could ever have ordered up a better big brother. One of the last things I learned from you was sacrifice. You taught me no matter how difficult anything was, it was worth doing if you did it for "them." Recently, I struggled with the decision to accept a new calling, they called me to be in the nursery -- again. This will be the 3rd time in the last 6 years. However, following your example of sacrifice and love I honored our Heavenly Father and accepted the calling because I was "Doing it for Zack." Already I understand why I was called to this position and I am so grateful that I did. I am attacking it with enthusiasm and dedication. Thank you big brother for the many, many things you taught me.

Just Because . . .

2010-11-05T23:08:00.000-05:00

I took this picture when we were at the Visitors Center in Independence, MO this past July. It's a feel good, this is how we roll kind of picture. I'm so in love with my men.

Happy Halloween!

2010-10-31T15:21:00.002-05:00

Halloween is one of my favorite holiday -- I love the festive colors, the trick or treating, pumpkin everything and the costumes! This year we wore bee related costumes. I was the Queen Bee, Zacky was a drone and Ben was our flower. (I loved the fact that he took on being the flower. His had to be a bit more simplistic, because he had to play in a concert on the night of Trunk or Treat at church.) Because this year Halloween fell on the Sabbath we decided to dress up in our costumes, have our traditional dinner of homemade pizza, hand-out candy and talk about the importance of death and the resurrection. Friday night, we did Trunk or Treat at church so Zacky got his fill of candy and on Saturday we did our traditional Halloween movies and other festive activities. In other words, I got to spread Halloween out over 3 days!!! Yay us!

I love Autumn, the look of trees ablaze in magentas, gold and oranges.

I love the crisp new crop of apples.

I love the smell of the air on a cool, crisp Autumn night.

I love that my family was a part of the Mayflower and the Fortune. Brave pilgrims that helped settle this country.

As much as I love these, I love my Heavenly Father and my little family even more.

How Young Is To Young To Start Chewing Gum????

2010-09-14T07:31:00.017-05:00

(A little history)I always have had gum and tic-tacs in my purse for my nieces and nephews to be able to have. When they were born I told them that I will always have tic-tacs and gum for them.

To this day they still go in my diaper bag now and look for them whenever we get together as a family. They even go to the bubble gum machine when we are all at my parents house.

Zack discovered the bubble gum machine when he was 14 months and wanted some but I kept telling him no.

So when he was 16 months he found some OLD bubble gum in one of my purses and he unwrapped it, well most of it and started to chew away on it! Well I took the gum out of his mouth. ( I've had to do this more then once.)

So last night we were at Lowes doing some pricing. Zack was good but he was started to get tired so I gave him one of his FAVORITE snacks, yogurt-melts. But those went fast since the bag was almost empty. Mr. Zack, got into my diaper bag pulled out my gum, unwrapped most of the wrapper and started to chew!!!!!!

This is the best pic I could get of Zack chewing the gum outside when it was dark.

Hard work is Starting to Pay Off!

2010-08-26T09:24:00.008-05:00

On Thursday, August 19th Ben and I were reviewing Zack's reading flash cards with him, my sweet Ben was doing them randomly just to see if Zack was really learning words or not, well he did showed him "Eddie" and Zack pointed to his Eddie!!! Eddie was on the other side of the room and little Mr. Man himself went and got him! We were so proud of him.

With the program "Your Baby Can Read" they count it as reading when your child does the motion, points to the things, signs and of course says the words that they see on the cards.

This is an older picture( taken in Oct 2009) of Zack and Eddie.

I love being Zack's mommy so much!

Life lesson #246

2010-08-23T09:32:00.021-05:00

Always make sure the pantry doors are always completely close and anything potential messy should be put up high!

Zack opened the pantry door and got the food coloring out (I didn't know that he could open a door much less reach that high.) and managed to dye himself fairly well. I think he was trying to become a red Easter egg.

Ah well, life isn't fun if we don't make it more colorful!

The Power of Example or Through My Son's Eyes

2010-08-22T18:32:00.017-05:00

Two months ago, Zack was playing with his baby doll, Lydie. When she didn't perform for him as he wanted her to he mirrored exactly what I always do when he misbehaves. While pointing his finger at her he began to gently scold, when he was all done he picked Lydie up kissed her and said; "I love you!"

Just a few weeks ago while our little family was returning from the annual Bumpus family reunion in Mt. Vernon, IL, Zack wanted his books and his little Lydie doll. He began to babble (read) out of the book he held to his precious little baby Lydia. Zack and I love to read together!!! Hope you enjoy the moments I captured on video of him reading to Lydia. . .

Bishop H. Burke Peterson of the Presiding Bishopric said this in the Ensign, Jan. 1973

Harmony in the Home

"The most effective examples a child will ever have—for bad or for good—are his own parents. Few of us realize how very pliable and teachable children are in their primary years of life. How quick they are to pick up parental habits and traits and teachings!"

We need to be good examples to our children.

Know that they are loved.

That they will grow up and become good, kind, respectable adults,Good parents and so much more.

First Trip to the Library.

2010-08-20T06:56:00.004-05:00

On August 19th was Zack's first trip to the library. I know I probably waited a bit too long, but honestly I was apprehensive about taking my little Mr. Man into the library. I loved seeing him surrounded by all of those books and yet even as much as he loves books he was distracted enough by all the pretty little girls. (That's what he's doing in this pic.)

We went to the children section and guess what was the first book he picked out????

Of course it was a Monkey book. He was making monkey sounds when I saw the book and I said to him "Zacky, what a surprise a monkey book!" We looked at books and he played with the noodle toy that they had there.

When we were on our way out we just had to check out that book and honestly I was thrilled that Zack did not want to leave, like his Mommy & Daddy Zack loves books! He was a bit difficult to control while I was checking out books because he kept trying to escape back to the Children's section!

I am so glad that he is my son.

Splish Splah I was taking a bath -- well sorta.

2010-06-10T14:58:00.012-05:00

Today Zack and I went to a splash park along with his Grammy and cousins--Gracie, Hannah, Emma, Jacquie, Ciera and Jonathan

Zack had so much fun; it was so adorable watching walk around to the various water areas and interact with them. It made my heart so happy to watch him with his cousins. All of them were so attentive and included him in all their water games. You can see the family love and bond.

It was a fun, adventurous, great AND blessed day!

Good-bye My Old Friend

2010-06-02T15:03:00.037-05:00

Yesterday I went to the funeral of my long time friend Andrew Kneib. He fought cancer for 15 years and was one of the strongest persons I have ever known. He was one of my heroes.
As kids, and teens we both had brain tumors/cancer. We even were in the Make A Wish program together. It always seemed that when I got better that Andrew got better. But then our old enemy, cancer struck him once more.

I am so blessed that I was able to know him in this life. He is such a great person and friend. I have no doubt where he is going and that he is doing many great and wonderful things on the other side.

What was said at his funeral is such a wake up call to me because he did not let his cancer stop him from doing anything! The following are some of what was said at the funeral:

"He got his eagle scout when he was only 14....., He worked in high school even had two jobs in his Senior year....., always did his school work even when he was under going his chemo treatments he was even able to graduate form high school in 2005 on time.
Andrew was always willing to serve in the church. He started doing home teaching at 12 and did it regularly. After high school he taught primary for 3 years. He loved the kids he taught and they loved him." He always made a big deal about celebrating their birthdays, and they always enjoyed taking turns pushing him in his wheelchair from class to sharing time.He always wanted to be a missionary, but that wasn’t possible. Instead, he served a mini-mission with Moises Echeverria. They would get together and study scriptures and then go out with the missionaries.
"When he was originally told that he would only have 2-3 months to live, it was arranged for him to go to the temple to receive his endowments. During that time period, he and Arlana(his mom) did a lot of traveling around the country, and he got to visit 16 temples. He greatly enjoyed going to the temple and went every month. He truly understood the plan of salvation, and the gospel, and he had a strong testimony that families can be together forever."

There was so much more said, he went to New York to see a Yankees game (with his dad) on their home field and many more things. He lived his life to the fullest! How many of us really do that, live our lives to the fullest? All of us need to start doing that. We all really need to enjoy our lives, see and know what is really important and what really matters. We should NOT have any regrets in our lives; our mortal lives are so short.

I will never forget you Andrew. You will be greatly missed and I love you.

I am so blessed to have known Andrew in my life.

Tae Kwon Do

2010-05-28T09:47:00.039-05:00

Some of you know that I did Tae Kwon Do for 6 years.

Yesterday was Master Beers last class. I went for the first time in 6 years(I don't have great equalibrium anymore since I hit my head on the corner of my closet door when I was getting out my uniform and the pain went to my surgical area. then got a huge migraine, when trying to do the spinning got dizzy and got a bigger headache every time and I still have that problem).
He was totally surprised when he saw me well he was surprised to see me and a bunch of his former students that came as well.

It was so crowded that we were squeezing in so we all can have some room and figure out who goes where since we were all black belts( see who has seniority over who.)

He went around introducing everyone telling some things about each student at one point that he was introduction everyone that he stopped and said, "I do not deserve this." then I spoke up out loud and said, "yes you do" and clapped then everyone else joined me.

When he got to me he toiled about "How remarkable I am and how it took me longer to get to black belt cause of my brain tumor.That when I gave my report there was not a single dry tear in the room and and that I am a mother now."

After he was done telling everyone who is who the class began. It was a very short class cause of how BIG the class was.

At the end we all said KAM SA HAM NED DA which meas thank you in Koren which is that is what we say at the end of each class. Then we all clapped for a good 2-3 min for the job well done that he had done well and it is obvious all of us that came are black belts and it was just not us who got the black belt we had great inspiration to make it to the black.

Then it was time for the little party.

Little bit later on my mom brought Zack. He at first was a little shy and clung on to me.

But when he realized that there were other babies he was on the go and playing with them he was a little party animal he was all over the do-jang. Of cores I was taking him to all of my TKD buddies and they all loved him.

It was so nice to see everyone again and to be able to do one last class and to be able to bow to master beers and the flags one last time. I am grateful that I was able to do Tae-Kwon-Do and do this one last time.

Elmo!!!

2010-05-06T10:56:00.005-05:00

What can I say Zack loves Elmo!

It all started when he was 6-7 months old. when i was nursing him one morning and trying to find something good to watch on t.v.(we only have basic t.v. :P) I surfed into Elmo's World and when Zack heard Elmo's cute little voice he sat up and looked at the t.v. and grinned from ear to ear and started to cooed. YES!!! My Monkey loves Elmo!!! that was the start of it all; of loving Elmo.

For Christmas he got a little stuff Elmo and a Kiss me Elmo that his aunt Becky gave him which he loves very much.

In January Zack was playing with his smaller Elmo and he confused it with his big Kiss Me Elmo. It just made me laugh watching him trying to get his little Elmo to perform. Finally, I had to explain to Zack that his little Elmo does not do that only his big Kiss Me Elmo did.

What can I say my monkey loves Elmo,Monkeys,his blanket, chuck trucks, books, balls,passies etc... My monkey just likes a myriad of things -- he is a well rounded kid.

It's a Nubbin!!!!

2010-04-29T13:32:00.006-05:00

As long as I can remember I have not been to eat the end of most foods. In my family it's called "the nubbin." You know, that last bite of a french fry, etc. When I was very small instead of popping that last bit of fry into my mouth, I would lay it on my plate/wrapper. Mom asked me why I wasn't eating it and I replied, "I don't like the nubbins." It's stuck.

My little Zack is much like his Daddy, he LOVES all things potatoes. Most of the time when Mom and I are in the car together he starts communicating he wants french fries. He'll make the sign for "more" and start blowing. (mommy always blows on then before giving it to him) Well, the other day I was getting him out of the carseat, I spotted . . . NUBBINS! Zackary is becomimg like his mommy and does not like eating the very last bite of his foods. Oh no, what have I created???

I love being Zacky's Mom!

Being so cute

2010-04-28T11:44:00.003-05:00

On Monday, April 26th I was preparing for Zack's bath -- turning the water on, gather toys, towels and soaps when I heard some noises on the stairs. I turned and saw him struggling as he was climbing up the stairs bringing his little Elmo and one of his monkeys to join him for bath time! Elmo and Monkeys -- the best of 2 worlds. That boy worked very hard, but he made it up the stairs with no assistance from me. Needless to say he was very pleased with himself.

On Tuesday, April 27 while I was giving Zack his bath he was doing his usual splashing and playing with his bath toys. At one point he picked up his walrus bath toy and held it like a baby. Zack rocked it from side to side and kept saying baby over and over. It was so cute but, Zack IS cute so why wouldn't he be doing cute things?

I love being Zack's Mommy

I Did It!

2010-04-24T17:46:00.006-05:00

I did it!!! Yesterday, I finally took my drivers test and I passed . . . I am an official licensed driver! At age 16 when everyone else was learning to drive, I was fighting for my life. Well, now I have a beautiful life AND a drivers license!

At the age of 16 when all of humanity is thinking of nothing but driving and dating, I was waging a battle for my life. I had a malignant brain tumor. Surgeries, meds, and other procedures left me drugged and with blind spots. I lost all confidence in myself regarding driving and for many years, I just was too afraid to attempt driving . . . then, I married my Ben. Ben has always believed I could do anything, including driving. He bought me a car and I started practicing. Everywhere we went, he had me drive. He never gave up on me! So yesterday, with the threat of my permit expiring at the end of the month and with a blessing from my husband I took my driver's test -- I passed! I couldn't believe it, I passed.

Terrible picture, but had to prove I am a proud owner of a driver's license. To celebrate the great event, my husband and baby boy went out and bought me a charm for my bracelet.
I truly am blessed and have a beautiful life!

Historic Event in the Durney Family!

2010-03-15T20:44:00.000-05:00

In February my sweet family, Ben, Zack and I flew out to Utah for a historic Durney Family moment! We drove up to Blackfoot, Idaho with Ben's parents and his little brother Danny to celebrate along with most of the descendant's of Gordon Durney (Ben's Great Grandpa) his 100th Birthday -- Yes, you read that right, 100th!!! It was so exciting to see that happen in your very own family, since it is so rare!

It was so nice to see that sweet man again and this time Zack was more aware. When we were getting our picture taken Zack would not even look at the camera ( normally he poses) he just couldn't keep his eyes off of his Great Great Grandpa Durney!!!

It was such a joyous occasion I am so happy that so many family members came for this celebration. It's amazing that so many people can descend from just one person in 100 years and that he actually had the chance to see it for himself!

We all chatted and mingled getting to know more of the extended family.We sang happy birthday to him it was just such a nice day to be able to see this mark in history!

I wanted to be able to take pictures of family with him but towards the end his energy was just getting depleted. But, I was able to snap a few of him with his children and then with their spouses.

We unsuccessfully tried one last time before we left to get a picture of him with Zack looking at the camera but Zack was true to form . . . he was fascinated with his Great Great Grandpa Durney.

In my opinion, the most precious moment of all (depicted in the following picture) Ben's Uncle Brian and Aunt Kristy's son Alex announced to his great grandpa "Grandpa I am going on a mission" Wouldn't that be so incredible to hear that from one of your great grand children?

What a truly blessed live he has lived!

Happy 1st Birthday Zack!

2010-03-10T14:06:00.024-06:00

It's so hard to believe that a year has passed since Heavenly Father brought this amazingly funny, active precious spirit into my life. I had never really longed to be a mother like some women, mostly because of my health. But, once he was here I cannot imagine ever having lived without this glorious, precious experience. I love being a mother and I love my Zack more than I could ever even explain. March 7th we celebrated Zack's first birthday, it was such a fun day! He wore his Birthday Boy outfit with a matching bib and cute little socks to church and then afterwards, during his nap time Ben and I finished getting ready for the party! We had all of our family over. My parents, my sister Becky and her kids Molly, Ben, Katie, Jack, Hannah, Emma, my grandparents, Richard and Phyllis (Duane's parents), Ben's uncle Alan and Aunt Lori, and their children, Jessie, Christan,Jackie, Ciera, and Jonathan.

The theme was Monkeys. We got out all the monkeys we had all over the living room.

We had one of Zack's Favorite meals -- PIZZA!!!!! We decide to order and get Papa Merphy's the night before and then we baked them the next day. So much easier to do that then making home made.

We had 2 birthday cakes one for Zack to destroy it had a monkey on top of it and one for everyone else to have which was a banana and it was so yummy and it was homemade.
Zack had some of that as well.

Well with his cake he destroyed it really well. it was like anWell with his cake he destroyed it really well. it was like an earth quake had happen on that cake.

He received so many presents -- chuck&friends trucks, books, little shoes, alligator xylophone, sesame street stuffed characters, Elmo See & Say, an old fashion toy phone that both Ben and I had when we were kids, bath toys, lots of clothes and a lot more! One of his sweetest presents was a homemade afghan that his Daddy made for him.

At the end of the night he was really tired form all the excitement. But it was a really great day.

I am so blessed to have Zack in my life.

A Hurricane in Oklahoma???

2010-03-02T19:43:00.012-06:00

Apparently, a hurricane has made its way to Oklahoma. It blew in sometime yesterday morning. I was applying some makeup and styling my hair for the day and noticed that it had gotten a bit quiet in the house. Hmmm, I decided I’d better go hunt for my little shadow.

Was he in the kitchen?

Nope, but what’s this??? I know I didn’t leave it in this condition.

Was he in the living room?

Nope, but what’s this??? It must be a natural disaster . . . Tornado? Earthquake?

I heard some noise in the bathroom and hurried back to discover . . .

Hurricane Zackary had struck again!

How could this innocent creature cause so much havoc?

I am so richly blessed, natural disasters or not!

You're Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile!

2010-01-26T20:52:00.006-06:00

Hey, hobo man, hey Dapper Dan,
You both got your style,
but brother,
You're never fully dressed without a smile!

You're clothes may be "Beau Brumelly,"
They stand out a mile,
but brother!
You're never fully dressed without a smile!

Who cares what they're wearing
On Main Street or Saville Row?
It's what you wear from ear to ear,
And not from head to toe
(that matters)

So, Senator, so, janitor, so long for awhile,
You're never fully dressed,
Though you may wear the best,
You're never fully dressed without a smile
I am richly blessed in this precious life!

Zack's 1st Christmas

2010-01-03T09:49:00.001-06:00

It was so great to be able to celebrate Christmas as a mom. . . I am struck with awe when I contemplate what a sweet blessing it is to be a mommy and to be able to celebrate such a precious holiday with my wee family.

On Christmas Eve we joined the Barnett Clan for their traditional CE dinner -- Chinese out, of course! It is a tradition that my family looks forward to every year. Once we had tamales, but it just wasn't the same. On our way to the restaurant an ice/snow mixture began to fall; by the time we reached the China Star it was icing really hard!! We all enjoyed dinner but kept an eye on the windows and realized that the storm had turned into a full-fledge blizzard! A blizzard in Oklahoma is unheard of, they had not had one in about 40 years. I could not believe it we had a BLIZZARD on Christmas eve!!!! Because of the treacherous roads we all agreed to cancel the rest of our traditions and went to our own homes. So Ben, Zacky and I nestled into our home for the evening and celebrated the magic of the holiday as our little family. We read scriptures, watched Christmas Eve On Sesame Street, (one of the Ipson family traditions) drank eggnog and our little Zacky enjoyed a biter biscuit. When the evening dwindled down, we turned down the lights and enjoyed opening our Christmas eve presents by tree lights and firelight. Of course our present HAD to be PJ'S!!!!! We left the usual milk and cookies for Santa and an apple and carrots for the reindeer.

On Christmas day( We didn't dream of, we lived a white Christmas!)

Ben and I were so anxious for Zack to wake up and discover that Santa had not only come and left presents, but that he ate the cookies, drank the milk and the reindeer had eaten the apple and carrots.

Zack had us laughing hysterically, he really wasn't interested in opening his presents but was fascinated by the orange that Santa had given him. Eventually the presents sparked some interest and Zack did loved the end results.

Later that day we ventured out on the treacherous roads and carefully made our way over to my parents house to open presents, feast on prime rib and an assortment of Christmas goodies and enjoy the company of the rest of my family. It is always mayhem and great joy when the ENTIRE family joins together and opens all the presents from each other.

The highlight of the present opening was Zack's reaction to the present from his Aunt Becky. She very wisely chose a Kiss Me Elmo! Zack laughed so hard and would not put his Elmo down. It was a HUGE success and I believed it brought real happiness to Becky's heart to know that she scored big time with her nephew.
I've contemplated about the blessings of the season, the greatest blessing of all our elder brother Jesus Christ willingness to come to earth to offer himself a living sacrifice so that we could return to our Father. Oh how I love this time of year when we are greatly reminded of His great love, when others draw closer to God and are kinder to each other. I am so grateful that after so many trials and heartbreaks that our Heavenly Father sent Ben and Zack into my life. I am so grateful for loving, strong parents that enveloped me with love all my life and a big sister that set an extraordinary example of love, and for snow on Christmas!!!

I am richly blessed in this precious life!

Zack Thinks He's Mastered Feeding Himself . . .

2009-12-10T13:49:00.006-06:00

These shots were examples of our little Mr. Man feeding himself back in November. What a funny little guy, he was insistent that he do it himself, but I'm pretty sure he got more on himself than IN himself.

I am blessed in this precious life,

Trip to Utah and Zacky's first Thanksgiving

2009-12-03T12:53:00.004-06:00

Ben and I went out to Utah for our Zacky's first Thanksgiving. We went to grandpa and grandma Durney's house for the feast and of course it was nice to see so much family. Zack of course was happy as a clown and everyone absolutely loved him. ( why wouldn't they?) I was able to share with Ben's family our family story about the first Thanksgiving and we sang "Because I Have Been Giving Much." (my favorite hymn) After we all ate we just chatted with each other and had fun.

The Saturday following Thanksgiving was the big BYU vs the U game. Ben's parents had tickets for the game and his sweet mom gave up her ticket so Ben and his Dad could have a little male bonding time. . . SO my lucky Ben got to go to the game. While the men were bonding at the game and tailgate party, Ben's sisters, mom and I (Zack too of course) went out to lunch and indulged ourselves with pedicures. After all that indulgence we went to Uncle Dean and Aunt Tonis' house to watch the game. The game went into over time But at the end BYU won 26 to 23!!! It was a perfectly fun way to end the afternoon.

On Monday my wee little family popped over to visit my high school alma mater -- Liahona Academy. It was wonderful to visit with and see the Degraffs again and be able to introduce my handsome, sweet husband Ben and the joy of my life, Zack! I was invited to audit one of Br. DeGraff's classes. We laughed so much and Ben was able to witness what wonderful educators the DeGraffs were and the type of education I received at that school.

A Long Year

2009-11-10T11:15:00.003-06:00

Today is the one year anniversary of Duane's passing. My sister and the kids have made it through all of the firsts. Not to say it would get any easier but at least all of the firsts are over with.

Duane was a good, kind, hard worker etc. whom was loved and respected by so many people. Becky and Duane had one of those rare marriages that they were always looking like that they were falling in love, they were newlyweds or still on their honeymoon.

Last week, while Ben was in the hospital, I took over the after-school/dinner duty with Becky's kids. I went up to Becky's room to help make the bed and tidy things a bit and she has displayed a LARGE picture of Becky, Duane and Molly as a baby; I showed Zack the picture. Zacky let out this loud squeal, which I thought was for his Aunt Becky, but the fact was he completely ignored Becky and the baby and went straight for his Uncle Duane. He smothered Duane's image with kisses; it was so sweet. I know that he recognized his Uncle Duane and he wanted to give him a kiss. Duane loved babies and I am sure the two of them would've had a great relationship. In fact, I know they have this great love between the two of them.

We were so blessed to be a part of Duane's earthly journey, he really loved everyone, especially his family and he made all of our lives better just knowing him. As for me, I am glad all the firsts are over as well. There are so many memories that I will treasure all of my mortal life about Duane. (Like giving me his jacket the day of my wedding, when I was so very cold.) I really miss my big brother today.

1st Halloween!!!

2009-11-07T18:06:00.016-06:00

I love Halloween and to make it even more special it was Zack's first Halloween. I decided to have Zack be a monkey! (seriously, what else would I choose, a murloc? LOL) Not surprising, he was absolutely adorable in his costume!
Ben was the crocodile hunter who ventured to Africa to pick up a monkey. I was Storm from X-MEN. As Ben said it: he was the crocodile hunter who went to Africa to pick up a monkey and called up Storm to have clear weather for the entire trip.
We had our traditional Halloween dinner pizza and cheese bread from Nico's pizza and rootbeer to drink. The weather was on the warm side so we didn't build a fire in the fireplace but we did have some hot apple cider -- YUM YUM!!! My precious husband, Ben was so sweet and surprised me with a Halloween present. He got us two Halloween plates and mugs from Pfazltcraft and got our Zacky two Halloween cups.

Ben took Zack to a little bit of trick-or-treating -- he took him around our little cul-de-sac. When they got back home Zack did have a little bit of candy and he had a blast getting into his trick-or-treat bag. He inherited my old trick-or-treat bag that Duane made for me when I was only 9 years old.

Didn't Put the Pieces Together . . .

2009-11-02T22:42:00.001-06:00

If my little monkey is pulling up on the furniture that he would do the same in his crib!

Time to lower that mattress!

Oh what little things can do!

2009-10-27T08:04:00.016-05:00

The other day while I was starting dinner Zack was squealing with delight and laughing and I went over to see what it was and it was the connector toys. Just two of the links, he keep grabbing them and they kept rolling. He was having a blast.
Oh what little thing can entertain a baby.

Piano Buddies

2009-10-24T17:28:00.012-05:00

One of the things I love about my dear husband is his love of music and his talents. He is very proficient on the piano and clarinet. Both Ben and I play the piano although Ben plays so much better then I do. Lately, Zack has shown a real interest in "playing the piano." He plays away and is quite proud and happy about it. (He does use enough strength to make them strike the strings on the piano.) What tickles me so much is that Zack even looks at the music when he "playing" the piano. Now lets hope he gets Ben's music ability rather then mine.

I'm In Love -- 'nuff Said!

2009-10-20T07:44:00.008-05:00

The smile that wins my heart every single time. I am so blessed and grateful that Heavenly Father sent my Ben to Tulsa so that we could meet, fall in love and create this precious boy together. He is truly a happy, funny little guy.

Wearing my old Future Missionary tag. I hope and pray that we can instill in him a deep love of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and a sincere desire to serve the Lord by serving a mission!

His first biter biscuit! Yummy! Surprisingly he didn't make the mess I was forewarned about. However, we were not so lucky his 2nd time around.

What can I say, for a fella who's vocabulary is limited to mama, dada, baba and ear piercing squeals of delight, and other babblings, he sure has an way of expressing himself.

Fever and a Runny Nose

2009-10-07T18:19:00.006-05:00

My Poor Little Man

I've been so incredibly blessed with a healthy baby, even with all the various flues and colds flying around this area. But today, those teeth finally did him in. He has a runny nose, red eyes and an elevated temp of 101.5. I didn't know why my normally extremely happy boy was so cranky and so clingy but then realized he felt warm! The picture is right after I put him down for a nap. I decided to change him out of his blue jean overalls and put on some warm, comfy jammies. I put him down and he rolled from side to side and then was scooting to grab his favorite monkey "Eddie." I picked Eddie up, tucked him into the corner Zacky always sleeps in and he rolled over to his tummy, put his arm around Eddie and immediately fell asleep.

Lions, Tigers and Bears Oh My! (And a few monkeys too!)

2009-09-24T13:15:00.015-05:00

Recently, we decided that our little family needed a mini vacation, well instead of wandering off to distant cities or neighboring states, we decided to get a hotel room in our own fabulous area and toured Tulsa. One of the highlights of the staycation was our trip to the Tulsa Zoo -- it was so fun watching our own little monkey taking in their little monkeys! We even enjoyed simple things like eating pizza and watching cable tv in our hotel room. It may have seemed silly to some, but it was such a delightful adventure taking in Tulsa as a tourist. I love my family so much, from my #1 big monkey to my #1 baby monkey. I couldn't be more blessed to have those two fellas in my life.

A Blessing and a Blessing

2009-09-18T09:55:00.011-05:00

When looking back at my short life, I can't recall ever having that overwhelming desire to be a Mom. My big sister, Becky was destined to be the mother of many children (and she is) because it was inherently a huge part of her soul. Me? I was content just being the spoiling, attentive aunt for a very long time . . . then I met, fell in love with and married my dearest husband and he changed my mind. So, we decided to start a family. After one failed pregnancy, which just broke my heart and was physically hard on me it took nearly a year to conceive my Zacky. Zacky started out a bit rough, I lost his twin and nearly lost him as well and as I look back now, I realize that it was all Heavenly Father's way of jump starting that maternal side of me.

Zackary Duane was so very welcomed into our family and indeed, into my heart. He has been that blessing that I was searching for and didn't know I needed all my mortal life. I love this boy so very much, I can't imagine my life without him now.On Easter, we gathered to name and bless our precious blessing. Ben's parents and brother traveled to Oklahoma from Sandy, Utah and Ben's Uncle Alan and family came over from Jenks. From my side, I had my sister Becky and her 7 children, my parents, of course and unbelievably, my non-member grandparents came!!! The blessing was so sweet, it was so wonderful to hear him bestowed the name of Zackary (a name I have loved since I was a tweener.) Duane (for my dearest brother-in-law whom we lost to colon cancer . . . a truly great man!) Ipson and to hear all the promises and possibilities that will be his if he continues a righteous path. I can't wait to see all that our Heavenly Father has in store for my boy.Zack was dressed in a beautiful hand-made blessing gown that his Great-grandma Ipson sent. (Thank you so much Grandma Durney, you are such a treasure in our lives.) In the circle stood Zack's: Daddy (my DH), Papa Pete Barnett, Great Uncle Alan Durney, Grandpa Larry Ipson, Bishop Anderson, Br. Mike McLea, Br. Bryan Dabney, Br. Randy Hill, Br. Tom O'Dell and my sweet nephew Ben Summers held the mike, so he could at least represent my brother-in-law Duane (his namesake) that had passed away during my pregnancy.

My America

2009-09-17T13:53:00.016-05:00

I was thinking lately about what the different components or qualities make up my America, my country, the land that I am so passionate about.

In my America. . .

you have freedom in speech and religion, but we are mindful not to abuse that freedom.

you take a stand and fight for our freedoms and are always victorious.

there are no party lines, marxists, communists, socialists, only one nation that is indivisible in the pursuit of Life, Liberty and Happiness and protecting and defending the Constitution.

we know that we need to choose the right path, not just the easy one.

What happened to that America? Too many Americans are choosing the easy path; not voicing their fears, choices and opinions; feel they are entitled to free healthcare, housing, food, education, etc. instead of rolling up their sleeves and working for those items. We are entitled to Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness, not healthcare, housing, education and cheap cars.

America, we need to stand up for our rights and our beliefs. We need to defend and protect our Constitution. We need to stand together as one Nation under God. We must remember that all that we are and all that we have is because it has been bestowed upon us by a benevolent, loving Heavenly Father.

"Ya Gotta Have Friends!"

2009-09-16T11:40:00.005-05:00

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart. ~Elisabeth Foley

I love that quote. I had the opportunity to visit with my dearest old friend Holly this past week. She married and moved to Missouri, her family lives here and so she is able to get back a couple times a year and then, we always get together. Holly, like me is a brand new Mommy, so this time when she traveled home, I had her over for lunch and to watch our babies interact.

Her precious daughter Annabelle is only 3 months, but is the sweetest thing.

We talked, laughed, shared secrets, ate and then talked and laughed all over again. Oh how I miss my dear friend, but feel so blessed that I had that afternoon with her.

Hiking in Paradise

2009-09-12T09:04:00.007-05:00

This summer, we traveled to Utah and Idaho for a variety of occasions, one of them was the Ipson Family Campout, where we spent a few days with the ENTIRE Ipson clan up on Mt. T. One of the events was a hike -- it was breathtakingly beautiful. I certainly appreciate the majesty and beauty of the mountains. Zack was a regular trooper and I think enjoyed his "front row" seat with his sweet Daddy. How blessed we were to be able to spend more time with Ben's family and to be able to spend time in my favorite place on earth -- Mt. Timpanogas. Mt. T is paradise on earth.

Game Time or Zack's 1st BYU Game!

2009-09-08T14:13:00.000-05:00

It's Zackary's first BYU football game. (which just so happened to be BYU vs. OU.) He experienced it through television (large-screen high definition) at his Great Uncle Alan's house. We were all excited to don our BYU apparel. Zack wore an old shirt of mine. It may be as long as a dress for him, but it was cute and it was BYU.

So the three of us headed to Alan's house to share this momentous event with their family (plus, they were the ones with the TV and the satellite connection).

The game started out excitingly enough, but after a while we started to get worried. BYU just kept making too many mistakes.

But we were greatly relieved when BYU made a come back and pulled it off! Zackary had already fallen asleep due to the lateness of the game, but Mommy and Daddy celebrated for him.
One more interesting note: On the TV they showed the reaction of Quarterback for BYU Max Hall to a missed field goal attempt by the other team near the end of the game. He was saying, "Oh, my gosh," or whatever it is they say in Provo (that is a quote from the ESPN people).

Do You KNOW Who I Am?

2009-09-06T17:11:00.000-05:00

That's right, I am the Ma-ma. The Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma! Zack has been uttering my name for a couple of weeks now, but I had a witness to it when Mom took Zack and I to Wal-Mart with her on Wednesday. Mom's eyes popped open wide and smiled from ear to ear . . . LOL, just like Zack at the same moment.

That's right, I AM the Ma-ma, and you? You're NOT the Ma-ma!!!

MOBILITY!

2009-08-25T13:26:00.000-05:00

Our life has become a little more interesting. Little Zackary has started to become mobile!

It started with learning to roll from his stomach to his back. That was exciting for him because he did not like to be stuck on his stomach. Then he also learned to go from the back to the stomach. This combination started allowing him to roll around.

He also discovered that he liked being on his stomach after all because he started being able to lift himself up higher. Along with lifting himself up, either the front end or the back end but not both at once yet, he started to be able to scoot around. This added ability allowed him to move around the room to different toys.

For instance here he is reaching for one of his new friends (of course another monkey)

This new position also gives him a whole new perspective on one of his favorite toys.

And even stretching things a bit farther as a true overachiever might, we make sure there is plenty of practice standing too. Of course he has to hold on to something (or usually have someone hold him), and what better way to hold onto something than with your mouth?!

All this new-found mobility is nice, but it is also still very hard. It is a lot of work just to get across the blanket to a new toy. The best way to get around is still by using Daddy.

2009-08-20T20:06:00.000-05:00

I think the face states it all -- He does not particularly care for rice cereal. I understand that it is the first step into the wonderful world of solids, so I will just keep trying until his resolve to dislike it changes or I melt by his sweet smiles and give him bananas!

Time to Eat!

2009-08-19T13:06:00.000-05:00

We have started giving Little Zackary some solid foods. First we assembled his new high chair. I think he looks good in it. We feed him some food as we are eating dinner ourselves. He always gets excited.

Of course he likes to take his spoon himself.

One of the cutest parts is the little colored goatee that he always gets from his food.

He is learning to use a sippy cup also.

Of course, as many young ones progress, Zackary would like to move on to even more solid food. This bean is one of the few out of the garden.

New Sleeping Position!

2009-08-12T12:57:00.000-05:00

Our little Zackary has learned to roll over. Not only does this add to his mobility, but he has also developed a new favorite sleeping position. Whether it be in his bed or on the floor, he likes to be bottom up. He also tends to push his head into the corner. Although I think he's the most adorable creature on earth, this new sleeping position does scare me a bit.

A Family Visit

2009-08-10T11:38:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I had the *gulp* privilege of hosting my in-laws for nearly 2 weeks. They are a wonderful family and I just feel so blessed to be a part of them. They love all things ice cream, camping and are hard-working, honest good people. But, I had to cook for them for that time period. Well, I muddled by and fixed a few of Ben's new favorites. Although, I think maybe I am going to set up a digital cookbook, so it is easier to just look up the favorites, print them up and cook!

Zack had a great time getting to know his Grandpa Ipson better, he seemed to have the magic touch and got this little guy to just laugh all the time. He's a wonderful grandpa. 2 days after their departure we headed out to Bumpus Family reunion. Life has been hectic this summer and I will discuss all of it in future blogs. I just wanted to share how blessed I feel to be a part of the Ipson family. I love them all!

To the left is Zacky and his grandpa Ipson, what a lucky boy to be so loved and to have inherited his Grandpa's beautiful blue eyes.

A Fairytale Whether in Logan or OKC

2009-07-16T13:20:00.000-05:00

Throughout my childhood I would claim that the Logan temple was my favorite temple! I fantasized about my fairytale wedding there. But as I grew older I became realistic and knew that being married there was just a huge inconvenience to my family. So, when Ben and I became engaged we discussed where to be married and it was a no brainer . . . OKC temple. It was only 2 hours from home, small and intimate, and we both highly respected Pres. Gillespie the temple President, whom officiated at our ceremony. It was a wonderful, perfect (except for that wind!) day. But, this past summer during a trip to Utah and on our way up to Idaho to meet Zack's great-great granpa, we were able to stop off and I at least saw it in person! I was greatly disappointed that the gates were closed, but still elated to see the beauty of this old structure. Whether it is new and small or old and grand, The House of the Lord is afterall, The House of the Lord. We are blessed to have the gospel of Jesus Christ restored and the restoration of temple blessings, especially the principle of eternal families.

The Big 5! (aka 5 generations)

2009-07-12T12:17:00.006-05:00

This summer Ben, Zack and I traveled to Utah for a family wedding, a family reunion/campout and for Zack and I to meet Ben's great-grandfather. The wedding was beautiful, the camp-out was tolerable, because I got to sleep in the family cabin rather than a tent (YAY ME!!) but the highlight of the trip was our Journey to Blackfoot, ID where I got to meet great-grandpa Durney. He is an amazing gentleman, he's 99 years old, still living independently in his own home and had the most infectious smile. He is what we would all want to be when we age. He's never let anything stop him. We had dinner with him in his home and then traveled back. In the photo we have from left to right: Ben Ipson (gen.4) Zack Ipson (gen. 5) Great-grandpa Gordan Durney (gen. 1) Grandpa Carl Durney (gen. 2) and my mother-in-law Carolyn Durney Ipson (gen.3) What a lucky boy Zack is to meet his great-great grandpa and amazingly, he looks just like him!

Survival of the Fittest!

2009-06-12T18:21:00.000-05:00

Today, Ben and I ventured out on a date to go see "Night at the Museum" it was hilarious and a good way to relax and spend an afternoon with my handsome husband! We bravely left our Zacky in the hands of his two oldest female cousins -- Molly and Katie! This was Katie's first babysitting job outside of her siblings and I have to admit they did a wonderful job. Of course he refused to take the breast milk from a bottle and he cried, but all in all he survived quite nicely without me for a couple of hours. I missed him so much, but it was wonderful just to be Ben's sweetheart for that couple of hours. I love my husband dearly and trying to find time to just be his wife seems to be a daunting task. Anyone have suggestions? Anyway, Zack was fussing a bit when I got in, but a moment in my arms and he was back to normal.

I understand Zacky wore Katie out; I guess we know who won the "survival of the fittest" competition! I'm very proud of her for the great job she did protecting and nurturing my little guy. So, the pic you see is him shortly after we got home, sporting his new "vacation" hat. He looks like he's ready to go "Down Under" with his Pop. He looks great and this was proof of the great job they did. Thanks Molly and Katie, I needed that date!

Question of the Day . . .

2009-05-20T15:10:00.001-05:00

Is it so terribly wrong to be this crazy in love with your baby? I can't get enough of him. He smells so sweet, he coos and laughs when I talk to him and he just all round thinks I am the best thing in the world -- or is it that he's really just after the free meals I provide?

A Survivor!

2009-05-19T11:25:00.000-05:00

I'm not sure who is more of a survivor, me or my precious buddy. Yesterday, I took Zack for his first round of immunizations. ACK! No one told me it would be more traumatic for me than for him. The nurse held his little legs firmly between her thighs and my Mom held his arm on one side and I held his arm on the other and they gave him 3 injections. I cried right along with my boy. I was warned that he might have a seriously bad night -- fever, crying, etc. but, he did pretty good. I woke him up about 2 a.m. and gave him more tylenol and fed him a bit. But this morning, he's been napping a lot and cooing at me. The picture above was BEFORE he got his shots, poor thing didn't have a clue. Oh, he's growing! He weighed in at 10 lbs 3.5 oz. and was 23" long! I just can't believe I'm so blessed to have this little monkey as my son.

Giggles and Grins and a touch of Sorrow

2009-05-18T13:37:00.000-05:00

This past week, I lost a very dear friend -- Tim Flanigan. Tim was an extraordinary man. He was from a family of 14 children, his mom gave birth to 3 sets of twins, Tim being a member of one of those sets. Because of some complications at birth he had a mild case of cerebral palsy. He never let this stop him. He graduated from BYU and Law school and served a clerkship with a federal judge. He had just settled down into a career with a great position as an attorney in Washington D.C. He was very generous (I know that he donated a large sum of money to my sister's trustfund after her husband passed away.) and selfless. Tim became an endearing presence in my life. Because of Tim, I became a better person. He is quite honestly one of the choicest spirits I have ever known. He was my friend, in the pre-Ben days my confidant, my mentor, my good ol' buddy. I will miss you terribly dearest of friends. I love you!

As the days wore on after Tim's passing, the Lord blessed me with witnessing my baby's first laugh. What joy filled my heart to hold that smiley, flirty little boy. He laughed and I laughed with him. I was just sitting there holding him and talking to him about whatever odd thing was in my head and he started to laugh. Ben and I were just so tickled pink to hear this celestial sound!

I swear there will be pictures, I'll post as soon as I catch him on film!

Showers of Blessings!

2009-05-12T15:12:00.001-05:00

It seems to me that lately there has been a considerable amount of rain fall in Oklahoma. I love the rain -- the way it smells so fresh after a spring shower, the gentle pitter patter that can lull you to sleep, even the loud crashes and light displays. But, those are not the showers I'm talking about, I'm feel so blessed to be a Mom and to be married to such a wonderful man. My baby Zack is growing like a weed and sees to be a non-stop eating machine! My bathroom is finally painted and useable, our roses are blooming, I have the coolest stroller in the world and love to go for long walks and the list goes on and on. Oh yes, life is great.

The clock sure WAS ticking . . .

2009-04-05T15:01:00.001-05:00

The very next day after my last post, I gave birth to the most incredible baby boy! Labor was 16-1/2 hours long. It started Friday night and ended at 1:20 p.m. on Saturday, March 7th. I went more than 36 hours without sleep. Sleep? LOL, I hardly know what that is anymore! Labor turned out to be a bit more intense then I ever dreamed it would be and I was so completely grateful when after about 7 hours of labor I was finally able to have an epidural. As my neice Hannah used to say...."Ah, it was bayla tu!" I pushed more than an hour and finally, my Zackary Duane made his appearance! I am bless beyond measure to be the mother to this perfect, albeit demanding boy!

And the Clock is Ticking!

2009-03-06T12:06:00.000-06:00

Can you hear it? *tick, tick, tick* the clock is ticking out the baby countdown. 5 more days! Imagine, I'm doing my happy pregnant, but my back is killing me dance. I've got the mini-crib up and decorated in my best neutral-gender decor. Nope, I don't know if it's a girl or boy, but I do know that I will be happy to hold this little one in my arms soon. Anyway, I've decided to do it in a green, brown and monkeys theme. That gives me time to do a girl/boy thing later. We have the names picked out, baby clothes are washed, folded and stored away. I have a cute red basket filled with newborn diapers and wipes, and I bought 4 sage green canvas baskets to act as drawers that we're putting on a bookshelf. I think I am as ready as I can be. Except . . . can I really do this? I mean, go through labor, be a good Mom (after all I have a very hard act to follow with my big sister.) and be a loving, perfect wife to my DH Ben. Well, I pray everyday that this baby will be healthy and I will be able to be the best Mommy I can be.

Happy Anniversary to Us!

2009-03-03T11:45:00.000-06:00

I truly feel so blessed when I think of mine and Ben's marriage. We are so happy with our life and can't think of any better way to spend our life than with each other. Today we are celebrating two years of marriage!!!

I sit here and smile as I write this, so glad that I am blessed enough to be in a wonderful marriage. It makes me think of Nephi when he said that there is opposition in all things and that you must know sadness before you can know happiness. I almost wonder if the Lord's plan for my first boyfriend (whom was extremely controlling and abusive) was to make me more aware and appreciative of Ben and how wonderful he is and if it was, it totally worked. I guess that is the trick with being omnipotent, He really does know what is best for all of us. It makes me humble to realize how much the Lord must love each of us to take into consideration all of the little things in each of our lives.

Obsessing About Size!

2009-02-02T13:36:00.001-06:00

So, I'm on a countdown until "itty bitty" is born, 5 weeks left! Whoo hoo!!! I've been told forever that I am small for being as far along as I am, but I feel like an elephant. Seriously, does that look that small? Oh well, I'm still excited and scared to be a Mom.

Ben and I went shopping this weekend and we finally picked up our carseat and stroller combo and today I washed and folded what little bit of neutral gender clothing I have. Now, I just have to wait on a bed. Mom has ordered a mini-crib and Ben is trying his best to craft a cradle. Mom's next door neighbor is quit a carpenter and he's making me a crib. I'm excited about that. He asked us to find a picture or a design we would like him to carve into the crib, I am crazy about bees (although not a ton in the crib bedding.) I was thinking about a beehive and bees.

6 weeks!

2009-01-26T13:06:00.000-06:00

I can't believe I just have 6 weeks left before "itty bitty" is born. I admit that I am scared to death, is that a good thing? I mean, I'm going to be a Mom, responsible for someone else's life and what if I completely screw them up? HELP! Fortunately, I have great role models in my own Mom and my supermom/sister Becky.